Reasons Why You Should and Shouldn’t Have a Relationship on Campus

Relationships! A relationship is a way in which two people are connected or the state of being connected. In this connection, we are referring to “Boyfriendship” and “Girlfriendship”. I want to show you some Reasons why should and shouldn’t have a relationship on campus.

Intimate relationships are a very significant characteristic among today’s youths. 7 out of 10 youths you meet are in a relationship and 3 out of these 7 youths are actually dating more than one-two partners. They are called the PLAYERS.

As the university is majorly filled with a lot of youths, there are a whole lot of intimate relationships going on. To everything, there is the good and the bad side of it. That is why we will look at the Reasons Why You Should and Shouldn’t Have a Relationship on Campus. Believe me, this is an interesting topic we are going to look at.

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I would love to see your comments in the comment section below. Let me know what you think and see your contributions. So, let us first look at

WHY YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP ON CAMPUS

·         EMOTIONAL STRESS:

Have you ever experienced a broken or failed relationship? Do you remember the trauma and stress it put you through? One of the major reasons you shouldn’t have a relationship on campus is because of the emotional stress it puts you through. Especially when you have a fight with your partner or you break up.

Emotional stress can actually make you even fall sick at times. I had a friend whose heart got broken by his girlfriend for 2years. He couldn’t eat for two days and almost collapsed. Funny right? But very true.  The amazing part is that there is no drug that can heal emotional stress. You will just keep on being sad and sometimes even cry. This keeps your mind away from more important things you should be thinking about on campus.

·         FINANCIAL STRESS:

This may not necessarily apply to everyone, but some relationships put you on financial stress. Especially when you have a partner who has ‘longer throat’. “Honey buy me this, honey buy me that”.

Most times, you tend to spend even money you do not have just to please your partner. So as a result of this, you become financially stressed and unable to handle other pressing campus responsibilities you have. What do you think?

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·         INSECURITY:

Another reason why you shouldn’t have a relationship on campus is the insecurities it brings along with it, especially when there is no trust. When you’re away from your partner, you are constantly thinking about what they doing, hoping they are not cheating with you or hoping they are not having fun with a different person.

These thoughts flood your mind and get you worried, when you’re supposed to have other important things on your mind concerning school. What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comment section.

·         BIG-TIME DISTRACTION:

The distraction caused by campus relationships can be very detrimental to you. Why this is so is because sometimes your partner might not be as dedicated to his/her studies as you are. So, they are likely going to influence you and distract you from your academic work.

The only way to avoid this is if you can be a better influence to them. No relationship should ever take your focus from being a successful student on campus. This is why you need to set your priorities right.

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·         UNWANTED PREGNANCY

Campus relationships are one of the major causes of unwanted pregnancies today. Intimate relationships sometimes get too intimate and can lead to devastating consequences. I met a girl last year who got impregnated by her boyfriend and the crazy boy left her and denied being the father of the child. In the end, she wasn’t able to keep up with school and had to consequently drop out. Very sad.

It is better to abstain than have a story of I wish I Knew.

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WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE A RELATIONSHIP ON CAMPUS

People usually go into relationships for the following reasons:

1. Companionship
2. Attention
3. To express love

What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comment section below. I will love to hear your side on the Reasons why should and shouldn’t have a relationship on campus.

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